Comments on: Emotional sex…are you wearing your emotional condom? http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/ Just another WordPress.com weblog Thu, 10 Sep 2009 22:44:03 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Ronnell http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-297 Ronnell Mon, 22 Dec 2008 21:15:01 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-297 I definitely whore myself around emotionally. I definitely whore myself around emotionally.

]]> By: Kelly Medders http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-291 Kelly Medders Sun, 23 Nov 2008 04:36:56 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-291 Charity, Would you say that there are Kingdom relationships to be had of a spiritual nature that would be with a person of another sex? Or should those relationships for accountability etc. be strictly with persons of the same sex? The reason I ask this is that to me while this line of thought has definate validity there is the extreme of it which would prevent a man from serving on staff with and submitting to a female authority figure in the church environment. To me there may be an element that may need to be added to the equation, that of defining roles. I as a man would not convey all of my heart to another woman than my wife, however I may have a relationship with a person who is a spiritual authority in my life who happens to be a female in which some of those deeper things may be discussed. I am just curious what you or some of the other fellow bloggers would have to say about it. Charity, Would you say that there are Kingdom relationships to be had of a spiritual nature that would be with a person of another sex? Or should those relationships for accountability etc. be strictly with persons of the same sex? The reason I ask this is that to me while this line of thought has definate validity there is the extreme of it which would prevent a man from serving on staff with and submitting to a female authority figure in the church environment. To me there may be an element that may need to be added to the equation, that of defining roles. I as a man would not convey all of my heart to another woman than my wife, however I may have a relationship with a person who is a spiritual authority in my life who happens to be a female in which some of those deeper things may be discussed. I am just curious what you or some of the other fellow bloggers would have to say about it.

]]> By: TanyaD http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-289 TanyaD Fri, 31 Oct 2008 08:40:27 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-289 Wow thanks for this, I just recently felt so broken and out of control. Clearly I was NOT wearing an emotinoal condom and really got hurt! Worst is the guy still doesnt know how I fetl it took God sending other people my way to clear things up. Now I know the ties that bind must be broken. Wow never knew words matter so much and hurt too. thanks for the encouragement Wow thanks for this, I just recently felt so broken and out of control. Clearly I was NOT wearing an emotinoal condom and really got hurt! Worst is the guy still doesnt know how I fetl it took God sending other people my way to clear things up. Now I know the ties that bind must be broken. Wow never knew words matter so much and hurt too.

thanks for the encouragement

]]> By: ladyt021080 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-185 ladyt021080 Fri, 28 Mar 2008 21:14:27 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-185 That was a very good read, but could you enlighten more on wht the Bible says about destroying emotional sex strings??? That was a very good read, but could you enlighten more on wht the Bible says about destroying emotional sex strings???

]]> By: charitymedders http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-49 charitymedders Wed, 14 Nov 2007 21:52:16 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-49 Thanks for reading my blog laura! Guarding my heart is ALWAYS easier said than done! Thanks for reading my blog laura! Guarding my heart is ALWAYS easier said than done!

]]> By: laurabird http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-45 laurabird Wed, 14 Nov 2007 19:33:34 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-45 Wow, what an insightful eye opener. I really liked that you mentioned setting up boundaries with the relationship and as I move toward a more healthy me, I would even have the boundaries in place in my mind before the relationship got started. It was good to be reminded again of the need and importance of guarding my heart. Love You! Wow, what an insightful eye opener. I really liked that you mentioned setting up boundaries with the relationship and as I move toward a more healthy me, I would even have the boundaries in place in my mind before the relationship got started. It was good to be reminded again of the need and importance of guarding my heart. Love You!

]]> By: shaesweeney http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-35 shaesweeney Thu, 01 Nov 2007 02:29:21 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-35 wow boo.... wow boo….

]]> By: heatherblankenship http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-33 heatherblankenship Tue, 30 Oct 2007 19:18:56 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-33 @ Hope- That is awesome! lol I just laughed outloud at your comment!!! @ Hope- That is awesome! lol I just laughed outloud at your comment!!!

]]> By: charitymedders http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-32 charitymedders Tue, 30 Oct 2007 19:10:00 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-32 Hilarous! I love it Hope! Hilarous! I love it Hope!

]]> By: Hope http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-31 Hope Tue, 30 Oct 2007 19:04:44 +0000 http://charitymedders.wordpress.com/2007/10/30/emotional-sexare-you-wearing-your-emotional-condom/#comment-31 In the word of Meg Ryan in When Harry met Sally, YES! YES! YES! The only conversations I'm interested in having with men are those sprinkled with salt. I'm definitely wearing an emotional condom. In the word of Meg Ryan in When Harry met Sally, YES! YES! YES! The only conversations I’m interested in having with men are those sprinkled with salt. I’m definitely wearing an emotional condom.

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